Jason Curious: Jason's Desk

September 30, 2003

MISS BRITTANY ANDREWS' WIDE WORLD OF FETISH

By Miss Brittany Andrews

Monthly Column Exclusively at JasonCurious.com

Column #9: Sitting Pretty

Greetings, my cyberfreaks and freakettes! It's your Diva of Dominance, Miss Brittany Andrews with another journey down the road less traveled. This month I want to talk about another of my favorite kinks: Facesitting.

Facesitting is one of the cornerstones of femdom fetishists. Appropriately named, facesitting involves having a woman sit on someone's face, teasing, grinding and rubbing her panty-clad pussy and ass over the face of the sittee. I get thousands of letters from fans asking if I'd sit on their faces and teach them how to submit to me. So, here's a few tips for those of you that have not had the pleasure of being under my complete control.

For the person being sat on, facesitting is a delicious experiment in giving control to your partner. The sitter has all the power and controls all aspects of the action, from her own climax to her partner's ability to breathe. The erotic asphyxiation angle of facesitting is known as "smothering" and can be a powerful tool for stimulation. However, when playing smothering-type games, make sure to have a safe word or hand gesture you can use if things get too intense. The last thing any of us needs after sex is a body to hide.

For the novice facesitter, I have a few fun tips you can try on your partner. For starters, you probably know if your man is interested in letting you take control. Even if he hasn't given you the green flag, there's a very easy way to introduce facesitting into your sexual repertoire.

Start off in a 69 and make sure to be on top. But unlike a regular 69, keep your panties on so there is no direct contact with your pussy. Slowly start grinding your pussy back against his (or her) face and tongue. Ride the face slowly like you're actually fucking it. Grind down on the chin. Push back until the nose is teasing your lips. Slowly raise yourself up using your arms as you keep applying pressure on the face.

Make sure to keep moaning words or sounds of encouragement and your man will be thrilled at the reaction he's getting. By the time you're halfway onto his face, you can hold yourself up with one arm and use the other hand to continue stimulating your partner's cock or pussy. Try and match the rhythm of your face-grinding as you tease them.

When you're good and wet and your partner is thoroughly aroused by your ministrations, sit all the way up on your haunches and start riding their face slowly. Enjoy the way you can control both the speed and the action. Lean back and press your ass deep onto his face, keeping up a constant pressure.

If ass teasing isn't your thing, take your time and control his access to your pussy. Tease him with the wetness of your silky panties and the smell of your desire. Force him to breathe deep your musky aroma. With his head clamped between your thighs, you can literally fuck your partner's face the way you need it done. Your wetness and moans will let him know that he's doing fine, but keep encouraging him anyway. It is a very intimate experience to cum right on your lover's face and he will love the feeling of closeness as you grind down on him while experiencing that joy.

The smothering aspect of facesitting isn't for novices, and I recommend that you only work up to that gradually and with lots of communication. If you're not already playing around with female domination, you don't even have to get into it.

For me, with a trained male sub-slut, I love the feeling of raping his face with my twaté, calling him names as I violate his visage for my carnal pleasure. I'll clamp my firm thighs around his head and cover his nose and mouth with my pussy and ass, smothering him with ecstasy. When I'm riding him, I make sure to reach down and pinch his nipples or slap his cock as I tell him that he's my sexy little pussy slave. I'll lean forward again and allow him a breath of air, scented with the wetness of my twaté, before wriggling back down on him and covering his mouth with my ass.

My most recent experience with facesitting was only two weeks ago. I had just come home from an out-of-town engagement to find that my bitch-boy, Alex, had neglected to finish cleaning my dungeon to my liking. I ordered my slacker slave boy to strip and lay flat on the cold stone floor. I hiked up my skirt and straddled his face, lowering myself gently so he could smell my moistness through my black silk panties. "What did I tell you to do before I got home, Alex?" I asked. "Clean the dungeon, Mistress Br."

Before he could finish my name, I clamped my pussy over his mouth, noticing how his cock sprang to attention at the first whiff of my pretty pink.

I slapped his cock hard and ground down on his face, before allowing him a breath. "You disappointed me, Alex," I purred, punctuating each word with a slap of his stiffening rod. "I'm sorry, Mistress B." Again I covered his mouth and nose with my pussy, holding his head between my legs. "Not good enough, Alex," I informed him. "You will not breathe again until you cum for your Mistress."

With that, I pressed against his face as hard as I could while smacking his cock with abandon. "Cum you little slut," I hissed. "Cum for me and you'll get all the air you need." I grabbed his balls and squeezed as he rewarded me with his usual white, hot tribute to my beauty. I hoisted myself off his face as he gasped for air. "Thank you, Mistress! Thank you, Mistress!" He kept repeating that 'til I thought about smothering him again.

The feeling of power I get from facesitting causes such an incredible rush and gives me fantastic orgasms. My love slaves adore being the focus of all that attention and pleasure too.

As usual, penning this column has got me all abuzz down below and this Aeron chair isn't really doing it for me anymore. Time to lose these wet panties and find myself a face to call my own.